How To Manifest The Life You Desire

By: Carol Antoinette

Before I learned all about how to manifest the life you desire, I found myself manifesting the life I’ve envisioned without realizing it.

A good example I’ll be using is my relationship. I like to use this example because I was not dating at all throughout my school days.

Not even when I was a kid.

You know when you see those little cute kids coming up to their parents and telling them they have a boyfriend/girlfriend?

I was not one of those kids!

I think a lot of it is because I grew up around people who have been in really bad relationships. There was a lot of divorce in my family and even my friends would hop around from relationship to relationship. I saw a lot more damage in people’s relationships than I saw good, loving relationships.

So, I do believe that I subconsciously stayed away from relationships because I was afraid that I would get hurt like the people around me were.

Eventually when I hit my early twenties, I became more open to dating. I wasn’t so pressed about finding my “forever one”.

Quite frankly, it was more like I really didn’t care if I did or not. All I wanted to do was experience what it was like to go on a date.

So, my first date was with this older man who used to be my coworker. He was really nice and very respectful to me, but we never went beyond our first date.

Not even boyfriend and girlfriend status.

Literally, we went on one date and then he completely ignored my existence. And I was fine with this because my intention wasn’t really to have a super serious relationship (though it did piss me off).

After that experience, I knew that if I really wanted to be with someone, especially to settle down with, they had to meet the requirements: honest, an anime lover, gaming geek, loyal (obviously).

I didn’t have a super strict idea of how they should look, but I very much wanted someone who had similar morals and values. This was very important to me and I wouldn’t settle for less than that.

It was about a year, after that moment that I declared this; I met my boyfriend Jon, who is now my fiancée of over five years. A lot of people become shocked to hear that my first boyfriend is now my future husband. Some even tell me that I just got lucky.

And to be honest, it wasn’t because I was lucky. There’s no such thing as luck. I just manifested my future husband without knowing what manifestation was back then.

And to this day, I still manifest a lot in my life that I always dreamed about. So I know that manifestation is real.

So here’s some advice on how you can manifest the life you desire:

1. Know exactly what you want

How are you going to manifest anything if you don’t know what you want?

When I ask you what you want in your life, I want you to be as specific as possible. Most importantly, I want you to dream big. The bigger the dream, the more you will realize that manifestation is no joke and no coincidence!

I don’t care if it’s to live in another country, make a million dollars a year, be a CEO, whatever it is that you want in your life, be specific.

If you don’t know what you want, I advise you to do some soul searching or if you truly aren’t sure, ask the Universe.

For example, “Universe, show me my options for jobs that are right for me.”

Or “Universe, show me partners that I can see myself with for the rest of my life.”

You know, something along those lines! It’s not your job to know the how. The Universe is like your server. You order what you want, the Universe takes your order, and in due time, the Universe will give you what you asked for.

2. Visualize your dreams

I mean, who doesn’t love to daydream about the life they desire?

It makes us feel excited and hopeful about the endless possibilities for our future. And sure we all daydream the life we desire, so I really encourage you to dream!

This helps you know that what you want is the right fit for you.

And when you visualize, I want you to be as specific as possible, as if you are already there.

From what you look like to the people you surround yourself with or even the career you are working in.

Basically feel like you have put yourself in a movie, except, this movie is your life.

People who manifest will also do so by creating a vision board, scripting, saying affirmations; the ways to help visualize are endless!

So, keep dreaming on!

3. Change your belief system

Well, now we are at the part where people “think” is difficult.

When you are manifesting big things in your life, you need start changing your belief system. You cannot and will not manifest anything with a lack mindset.

What I mean by this is thinking that you can never make (insert amount of money) per year.

Or thinking that you are just unlucky in finding love.

Or that your body will never look like the way you want it because of x, y, z.

This is all bullshit. Your opportunities and your desires are limitless. Your success is inevitable. And you need to start realizing this now.

I have heard people around me talk about how they aren’t motivated enough to go to the gym.

Or ask why would anyone buy a million dollar home and not a lot of people could afford a place like that.

Or that they just have bad luck with relationships.

This is the belief system they have taken on.

Therefore, the Universe sits there and assumes “If that’s what you think, then your wish is my command!”

Never listen to the people who don’t have what you want.

Would you listen to an overweight person for fitness advice? No.

Would you listen to people who struggle with their finances and are in financial debt for money advice? Also no.

How I have changed my belief system is strictly listening to other people’s success story that have done it before me. I blocked out anyone’s advice that didn’t have what I wanted in my life. That means I’ve read a lot of books, listen to a lot of podcasts, and have watched a lot of motivational videos.

I had to find people online who were success stories in order for my life to be a success story.

To this day, I continue to listen to these things that help inspire me. If they have done it, then so can I.

And you can do it too.

Don’t feel discouraged because literally anything is possible.

4. Act as if

Ever heard of the phrase, fake it till you make it?

There is quite a bit of truth to this phrase; however, let me change this phrase a little bit and say faith it till you make it. I don’t want you to feel like you are faking anything, but acting as if you have it.

So look at something and telling yourself you can afford it easily.

Buy flowers for yourself as if your future loved one bought them for you.

Create a morning routine that a millionaire follows.

Buy some cute gym clothes for the gym even though you haven’t started working out yet.

You’re not deceiving yourself by doing this.

In fact, you are putting in the energetic vibration of being on the wavelength towards what it is you desire. There’s actually a lot of scientific proof on this because your subconscious doesn’t know the difference between what’s real and what’s not.

So, if you keep telling yourself that you make x amount of money per year, your subconscious takes this in and makes it to where your Higher Self will start to guide you towards ways to make that a reality. The problem with this is people get too much into their own egos and tell themselves, “Well, that’s not true” or “Well, I don’t have that”.

I need you to stop focusing on the things you don’t have. Focus on the things you do have. And dammit, have the patience for it.

You need to have the faith. Again, faith it till you make it. And by doing this, you are giving the Universe space to work its magic on you.

5. Feeling grateful that you have it

Gratitude is one of the highest vibrations you want to be in when you are manifesting. The Universe responses better when you are grateful for the things you have and the things you are manifesting. When you show more gratitude, the Universe will respond to this feeling and give you more things to be grateful for.

I mean, tell me a time where you had good things come to you when you were upset, frustrated, or angry?

Exactly.

You probably can’t think of anything good happening during those times.

Therefore, gratitude helps speed up the process of manifestation and lets good things come your way.

You can do this however you want, you don’t have to get fancy with it. Sometimes people list what they are grateful in a journal. Some people may pray about it.

Whatever helps you sit there and feel gratitude for your manifestations, do it. And don’t forget to feel gratitude for the things you do have. Often times, we tend to forget that we really are blessed with a lot in our life that we take it for granted.

So be grateful for the lover that the Universe put in your life.

Or the abundance and prosperity you get to make.

And that healthy, beautiful body you have.

Just be grateful.

What do you want to start manifesting in your life? Comment down below!

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CAROL

Hi, I’m Carol! I created Here to be Inspired in order to teach YOU how to live up to your highest potential. Here, I will be talking about spirituality, self-development, law of attraction, and so much more!