Manifesting mistakes are bound to happen if you aren’t sure what you are up against.
I get it. I’ve been there also. You are definitely not alone.
A lot of books that talk about the Law of Attraction talk plenty about how to manifest our desires, but not a lot of them talk about the mistakes we make when it comes to using the Law of Attraction.
After all, how are we going to get better at something if we don’t know what we need to correct?
And that is where I come in.
I have made plenty of mistakes when it comes to manifesting my dreams. Honestly, I’m pretty much guilty of making all these mistakes. I probably would have been farther in my life if I had known about what to avoid doing.
But hey, those mistakes were most certainly a blessing because now I get to teach you all what not to do when it comes to manifesting.
So let’s get started:
Seriously. Stop obsessing about it.
You are doing more of a disservice to yourself if you start getting caught up in the when, the how, the who, whatever it may be.
I’ve talked about this before and I’m going to say this again: don’t be the crazy ex that gets obsessed with your manifestation.
The more you obsess about this manifestation, the more resistance you are making. You will end up putting way too much of your energy on your obsession and that manifestation will become stagnant.
It is literally like an ex would do to you if you started obsessing about them all over again.
Remember: everything around us is made up of energy and that involves manifesting. Energy needs to keep a constant flow in order for the Law of Attraction to work.
So, obsession will slow down the energy flow and you’re going to make it a lot harder on yourself to manifest your desires. Detach from the outcome and be indifferent about the details.
Don’t worry about it and just let the Universe do its thing. It’s not for us to be worried about anymore. You’re only job is to be confident knowing that it is coming to you in divine timing.
And if it doesn’t work out, just know, there is always something even better out there for you. The Universe doesn’t say no. It’s either a “yes” or a “I have something even better for you”.
So stay calm and carry on.
It’s ok if you aren’t in alignment with some of your manifestations. We need to realize that we are forever changing and revolving, so a lot of the things we wanted won’t be in alignment with us anymore.
Don’t try to force yourself to stick with something just because you feel like you have to.
There can be many reasons why you don’t resonate with your manifestation: maybe you decided that you deserve better, maybe you learned more about yourself and felt drawn to do something different, maybe it’s just as simple as not caring much about that manifestation anymore.
Whatever it is, just know that if you aren’t resonating with your manifestation, then it means there’s something better out there for you!
When it comes to manifesting, you can’t just expect it to just show up to your door and walk in. You need to get up and open the door!
This is the biggest thing that sets people back from manifesting their dream life. They just sit around and expect the results to come to them or they end not wanting to take the action for whatever reason. It could be limiting beliefs, money related, maybe you don’t know where to start, etc.
Whatever your reason may be, in order for you to get anywhere, you’re going to need to take action. Take baby steps if you have to, ask your guides for a sign, find something that really draws your interest. Don’t be afraid to try something!
I know for the longest time, I was afraid of failure, something that holds back many of us. I’ve failed multiple times in my life and some of those failures were upfront and centered for people to watch me.
So coming from someone who has failed multiple times, I wanted to say that it’s absolutely ok!
Failures are really blessings in disguise and I know that may be hard for you to believe, but I strongly encourage you to keep going! If you find yourself at a crossroad, simply make some adjustments until your manifestations start working out for you!
How does that saying go from Albert Einstein?
You never fail until you stop trying.
If you’re one of those people who are always negative, complaining, making yourself feel like crap all the time: STOP IT.
Ok I mean, I know that’s easier said than done.
But, I highly suggest you find ways to raise your vibrations. Basically do the things that make you feel good, whether that’s listening to hype music, hanging out with people you love, petting your dog, cuddling with your cat, practicing gratitude, whatever it is that makes you feel good: DO IT.
When it comes to manifesting, it’s hard to manifest on a lower frequency when manifestation flows in a higher frequency. In fact, if you try to manifest in a lower frequency, chances are, you actually end up attracting the opposite of what you want.
So if you want love that will last you forever, for example, you need to be consistent with love, whether that’s with yourself, your family, your friends, your neighbors, whoever or whatever that may be.
In response, the Universe will give you what you want because you are giving out the energy of love. Your life is a mirror reflection of how you feel inside and will most certainly reflect the vibrations you give off. So if you want good things to come to you, you need to give off good aura to make it happen.
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Although you may tell yourself that you are receiving your manifestation, you may not actually feel it deep down. Generally, this feeling is sitting inside of your subconscious, which is where our belief system is made.
So let’s say you want to receive a lot of money and you tell yourself that you are going to get it. However, you’ve grown up in a family where money was believed to be evil. Maybe money was very scarce and you and your family had to be very frugal with money.
These limiting beliefs will block how you manifest your desires until you actually take the time to change them.
If we don’t take the time to rewire your subconscious, chances are, it’s going to be a lot harder for your manifestation to come.
This is something that we have the ability to do. There are many free resources out there to help guide you into changing your belief system. From hypnosis, to EFT, to affirmations, to meditation, the possibilities are endless!
I recommend you find what works for you!
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I know it’s hard for some people to believe in a higher power, especially when you’ve been through moments where you just can’t find the faith.
Trust me, I’ve been there.
I can basically speak from my experience that the way I’ve started to trust more in a Higher Power was by asking for small signs. It could something small like a dollar bill or seeing something out and about. And just being open and willing to whatever happens even though I don’t know what to expect.
It’s the uncertainty that makes us feel uncomfortable because as humans, we feel the need to control which really does more harm to us than good. We came into this world for a purpose, for some kind of reason. Yes, we learn some life lessons that hopefully help us grow into better people, but we are here be free and to go with the flow.
We know control just makes us more stressed and of course, being constantly stressed creates resistance since it’s a low vibe emotion.
So, may I suggest that you give it another try?
Try asking for small signs and just be open and willing to receive it. The more proof you find from the Universe, the more you will find that the Universe wants to help you succeed.
Start small and see what unfolds.
Manifesting anything takes time! There’s really no such thing as time throughout the Universe.
This makes sense actually, because when you really think about it, time is a man-made concept that we made up in order to organize our lives.
So when we think we are falling behind, we’re actually not. There’s no such thing as the right timing. That’s why you hear all these manifestation gurus talk about divine timing.
Your manifestations will come when the Universe feels you have prepared enough to receive. As long as you keep putting in the effort to change your limiting beliefs, taking the actions, and detaching from the outcomes, you will most certainly get there!
It’s just going to take time and patience.
What have you learned from your manifestation journey? Comment down below and share your experiences!
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